Saturday Morning Rounds
In this article, the author starts by highlighting how this topic has been treated (ie neglected) historically:
She then goes on to outline 3 transitions that are especially important for dual-career couples, as well as 2 pitfalls to avoid within each transition:
It would take a lot more space than this newsletter has to dive into each one of those topics, but trust us when we say that if this subject matter is of interest to you then the article is worth a full read. Plus it looks as if quite a bit of the material for this issue is available for free on HBR's website, so if you want to dig deeper all you've gotta do is keep scrolling!
Who we're following
Dr. Sasha Shillcutt, MD ("Brave Enough MD" @RUBraveEnough) is a physician and podcast host who recently recorded a fascinating conversation about being intentional when you say "Yes" in the workplace with Dr. Sharonne Hayes, MD, (who is clearly qualified to speak on the topic, being both a Professor of Cardiovascular Medicine and the Director of Diversity and Inclusion at Mayo Clinic).
BBMD tip of the week
The article we highlighted this week mentioned that basing decisions primarily on money is one of the most common pitfalls when couples are managing a dual-career life. We would say that it's one of the most common pitfalls for professionals in general, and physicians in particular. With the pressure of student loans bearing down on most, and a decade or more of delayed gratification affecting pretty much all physicians, it's totally understandable that picking the job with the highest pay might seem attractive.
However, jobs that pay a lot often come with a high price tag as well. It's not necessarily the case that the highest-paying job is a bad one, but we get to see a lot of contracts and job searches from our vantage point, and it's a consistent theme that the roles which pay highest do so because they've had trouble keeping people. So how much money do you actually need? That's going to vary from person-to-person based upon your situation and your goals, but here's a summary of research on the topic that we cover in the Lifestyle Design portion of our curriculum (add your annual student loan pmts to these numbers):
Quote we're contemplating
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Have a wonderful weekend, all!